I promised you 2 things that you could say to yourself that have opened a flood of wonderful things into my life over the past few days, and can work for you as well. I'll share them with you in a second.
You see I have found out that our minds are like valves. We either turn on or turn of the abundant value that awaits us with our thoughts. Whether that is great relationships (*including our spiritual relationship with god), more money or superb health.
Doesn't that make sense? I believe in the law of attraction and I also believe that we have the ability to turn that truth on or off.
"The most powerful thought I know of, is the one I believe with the most passion." -Me
Yup, you can write that one down.
You see I was speaking with someone yesterday I have a huge amount of respect for. He's one of the wisest men I know. Him I were discussing what people want most in life and why they want it. My biggest awareness of why most don't have it is low self esteem.
People have been conditioned that they don't deserve success! Have you?
I've found it to be absolutely true based on my experience of all of the prospects and people I talk to. There's one way you can test yourself to find out. How much does this word show up in your thoughts? It's one of the worst words you can think of...
The word because has destroyed more lives, tore down more peoples self esteem, broken more peoples dreams to nothing than any other word on the planet.
Think about this:
- I'm not a good sales person because...
- I can't seem to lose this weight because...
- Women/men won't date me because...
- I can't seem to pick up the phone and call prospects because...
- I'm not good enough at talking with people because...
You may not say any of these out loud but that word because is in your head every single time. If you find yourself not taking appropriate action towards what you say it is you desire, that word is probably in there somewhere.
And it's because you're concerned about what others think about you by the way. "If I do _______ what will people think about me." Think about that one and I'll get into it in more detail in another post.
I'd rather focus on the solution to this if you don't mind. Shall we?
The two things you can say to yourself to start to turn it all around are this:
- I deserve all of the success that I can create
- I give myself permission to succeed
Sorry it's nothing more difficult than those two things.
People are trying to figure out if anyone is going to give them permission to succeed. Worse off they are waiting for someone to come along and believe in them more than they believe in themselves! This isn't you is it?
You have to appoint yourself first. Now you have it so no one has to come along and give it to you! Isn't that exciting? Yes that means you have the ability to turn on that faucet at will!
As Eban said from the call I shared with you, "Your real power lies in being authentic, not being perfect. Just be who you are. Most of us are so busy trying to be who we think we should be..."
Just be the wonderful you that you are today. Try it and let me know how it feels.